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I think the biggest obstacle to people trying sex toys is a lack of education and perhaps a little fear. They may be curious for many reasons, yet just stay stuck and never reach out to explore the added ways to bring discoveries of new pleasure to their sex life. In fact, it is the women I meet who resist the idea of learning more, those who actually could benefit the most. For whatever reason we all are conditioned by our family upbringing, social pressures or religious backgrounds…. and if all that isn’t enough to handle we have our libido to deal with too!
So…. hopefully you will want to learn more about the world of sex toys and I assure you that you will discover and find new ways to enhance and bring variety to your sex life!
I believe that myths are dangerous, as many sex experts have stated,
since they reinforce the cultural or personal barriers that prevent
women and men from fulfilling their sexual potential.
The biggest myth I hear over and over is that sex toys mean that you
don’t
need a man…or that your lover will feel you don’t need him anymore.
This is simply not true, and so very far from the heart of the matter.
Sex Toys enhance pleasure and can bring intensity and variety to our sexual enjoyment. Sex toys can never replace the tender words of a lover, the touch of him, and never can any toy replace a tongue or penis! I believe that sex toys do help us to know our bodies and enjoy the responses of pleasures that are deep within every woman.
And if some women for whatever reason or circumstance should find themselves without a partner, I believe it is good to continue to enjoy healthy sexual fulfillment.
No woman is alone if she struggles to feel the pleasure of orgasms. Every woman is different and responds to what feels good to her, since we are all unique…. yet definitely as women we can relate to many similar responses.
The
collection of toys and products on my site is designed to heighten
our senses
and soothe our tension. Remember to be patient and often
you’ll find it is just a matter of taking it one step at a time.
Vibration feels good to both men and women. For women it helps us
to feel added intensity against the sensitive place we all know and
love…. our clit! This is a woman’s Hot Spot! When adding
in a little vibration - like the Pocket Rocket can give - which I
must say is the best starter toy around (although bullets in any
size can do the same thing and again it’s just what you prefer)….
you begin to speed up the sensations and open up to that pleasure
that is deep within you. It helps a woman let go faster and many
times it allows her to get there with a stronger urge and desire.
So as you tease your clit with the light vibration and with touch-and-go techniques, you feel your body respond and the building of the orgasm continues to mount! Once you feel the wonderful sensations rising close to the top …you will ache to go up and over as you may choose to press the vibe down on your clit for the explosion of your orgasm.
These techniques with the pocket rocket or bullet can also be shared with your lover. Use the toy together…here are just a few ways I have discovered that bring added pleasure and a sense of intimate joy with your partner.
Tease and touch each other not only with your hands and tongue …but use the toy to tease your man’s hard cock. Move it up and down the shaft lightly and allow him to experience the thrill of vibration. Touch and move it over his balls and you will see how delightful it is to share sexy play together!
Take turns…. try letting him use it and tease you! There is nothing as wonderful as a luscious tongue gliding over our clit and adding to the play of vibrations along with licks and sucks! Oh My!!
Another way is to have it handy when you are in doggy position and while you feel the wonderful sensations of his hard thrusting cock sliding inside…you can touch the pocket rocket to your clit and have a stronger orgasm…. maybe even have what I call the “Double Whammie”. (It’s feeling the pleasure from your clit and your g-spot at the same time.)
So those are just a few ways to discover the pleasure of using a sex toy. Later on …you can explore the delights of stimulating your g-spot and also moving on to soothing the ache of how a toy can satisfy the need for penetration.
So… be patient and open and explore safely with sex toys…. and let the creative juices flow! You may be in for one AWESOME RIDE!
© Devilish Dot - October 26, 2003 Issue of the Just Erotic Romance Review Newsletter
Dot’s Bio: Dot celebrates her womanhood through sharing and connecting with other women. Her sincerity and open approach about sex and what part toys play is centered on helping women understand the wonder of a woman’s orgasm! Toys never replace a lover’s hands, tongue or penis…. but there are times when a woman may not yet have learned to orgasm or not be able to orgasm very often, and using toys can excite new pleasures that can bring fulfillment into a woman’s life. And if a woman is with a partner it compliments the relationship and may even rekindle a fire that may have thought to be gone.
“ Each time I am asked to write an article I feel excited and somewhat fearful. And these feelings remind me of how I felt when I first thought about trying a sex toy. My hope is to be able to give you more information about the pleasures in using a sex toy if it is your first time even thinking about it…or if you are a connoisseur of Buzzing Delights. With that said…you might be surprised to find that Toys are safe, fun and liberating!
Devilish Dot
“ Battery
Charge Your Libido from Escondido to Toledo!”
www.devilishdots.com
